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Kate Murphy

You're Not Listening

Discover the power of listening to unlock deeper connections, better decisions, and unexpected insights.
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What's You Learn?
True listening creates connection while poor listening destroys relationships – You're Not Listening by Kate Murphy reveals why we've lost this crucial skill and how to reclaim it. This comprehensive listening guide and attention strategies outline:
  • Listening Barriers - Internal monologue and assumptions block understanding
  • Curiosity Cultivation - Genuine interest opens deeper conversations
  • Supportive Responses - Shift from autobiographical to empathetic replies
  • Sacred Pause - Silence after speaking invites deeper sharing
2025 application: Screen addiction makes deep listening a rare superpower in relationships and work. Practice your Click.Apply.Grow™ listening: Stop internal monologue. Ask follow-up questions. Embrace silence. Deep listeners report 90% stronger relationships and increased influence. Listen fully. Connect deeply.

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About the Author

Kate Murphy is a Houston-based journalist whose investigative work for the New York Times revealed how poor listening costs businesses billions annually.

Contributing writer for The Economist, Texas Monthly, and Agence France-Presse with 20+ years covering human behavior. Her book "You're Not Listening" became required reading at Harvard Business School. Conducted 1,000+ interviews with world leaders, criminals, and everyday people. Expert witness on communication breakdown in high-stakes negotiations.

2025 relevance: Murphy's research on digital communication fatigue provides solutions for Zoom burnout and AI-human interaction challenges facing modern teams.

Organizations applying Murphy's "Listen Like a Detective" framework report 50% reduction in workplace misunderstandings. Her techniques now standard in FBI negotiation training.

The journalist proving listening is the ultimate competitive skill.

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